How can you avoid marrying a guy that turns out to be the wrong guy for you? It's easy! If you're dating a guy, whether it's been a long, significant courtship or you've been together just a few months, there are signs that you lover may be turn out to be a *** down the road. Tread lightly if you see any of the following 3 signs .

He's in a control – a little too much! If your guy is the one who becomes the boss every time there's a decision to be made in your relationship, it's a red flag and a sign that he may become a control freak down the line. You're a strong, independent woman and you certainly don't want a man to control you.

He loves himself – a little too much! If your guy spends more time in the mirror than you do, it's a sign that he may be a narcissist and someone who will become not only obsessed with his own looks, but yours too. If you guy tells you how to dress or what to wear, there's a control issue you brewing and you don't want it to boil over.

He loves you – and lots of other women, too! If your guy has a bevy of female friends and seems to derive self-esteem and self-worth from the attention these women give him, that's a HUGE red flag. You never want to be involved with a guy who's got more "girlfriends" than you do! -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com